Multicultural Marriage (Your opinion needed)

• Dear all
  Good day to you,
  i went thorough this forums i saw different people different way of thinking good stuff bad stuff i really want this forums to be healthy place where we all can benefit from it.
  If you guys have time let discuss about Multicultural Marriage what is the positive on it and the negative of it.

  30 May 2009, 04:09 The Fable

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• in my opinion

  it well never work because of different culture.

  Rami 31 May 2009, 12:43 - Report

• may be...

  The different culture its not that big problem ,,,the problem comes from the FAMILIES.There are problems even in the marriage between people from same culture!
  For my oppinion íts possible one multicultural marriage to have success only if the people love each other really truly

  Crazy girl 07 Jun 2009, 11:54 - Report

• To Crazy Girl

  you a gin hehehe,
  i totally agree that multicultural marriage is a good thing at the beginning i said it will never work to get people attention and see what they feel about it.
  in my opinion it is possible if both parties understand each other and they have love story i mean each of them love the other and will make his family agree on that and it need some scurfy from both side.
  i still believe that mix marriage is good things i can see it on some families where the kids are smart and unique.
  am un arab but i do not believe on arranged marriage.
  Survival Girl thanks for the respond.

  Rami 08 Jun 2009, 12:16 - Report

• :)

  Rami ,,,it seems me and u are the only one visitors here hehe
  Im happy to know that you dont believe in arrange marriage what is UNFORTUNATELY the normal practise in Saudi Arabia. dont say its not true because we both know about it ,,,sure im here for 2 years and i dont know much well you country BUT I HAVE LEARNED enough from the arab culture!
  
  the arranged marrige belongs to ur traditions and culture so to delete or change them is Utopia.
  
  Im the pure example ,,i met a guy a Saudi...we are in relationship,we get in love ,we want to be together ,,but it's IMPOSSIBLE...only coz his family enforce him to get marry someone who he doesnt love and who he doesnt want to marry!
  so we r just the next 2 destroyed lifes in name of the religion and the family!
  
  But this is the other topic what me and rami probably will open soon in that forum .
  
  
  I know many people with mix marriages and its really interesting to see how those people do all their best to support the harmony in the family containing diferent custums and traditions....its just a big experiance and a kind of new knowledge

  still Survival girl :) 08 Jun 2009, 10:34 - Report

• To Still Survival girl

  First of all thanks for the new nick acceptance Survival girl sounds coool
  and i really think we are the only one hear some time maybe we need to post with diffrent name to make it more active and sound thats there are more people
  ya i totally agree it is a strong culture but still some family maxied marrage work for them my mom is indian so we break the culture lol
  well since you you share your story i will till you mine i was in love with none arab girl but her we where collage mate we loved each other so much but her family did not accept it so different people different thinking but for me i prefer mix marriage and my family agree on that.

  Rami 09 Jun 2009, 01:02 - Report

• to Rami

  yeah may be we have to sign with the diferent names ,,sounds good
  
  yeah not many people accept that mix relationships and marriages ! but u r lucky coz ur mom is indian this is why you dont belaive in the arrange marriage ,,,,,and broke up the traditions
  
  But the mom of my freind is 100% Saudi no way the rules to be braked ...but i stopped to care ....now he will live with someone who dont love coz if his fmaily not me ,,,so life goes on and guys are everywhere

  Crazy girl 09 Jun 2009, 09:39 - Report

• Crazy Girl

  Say no to arrange marriage
  well crazy girl there is one thing in saudi it is not easy to meet girls and go for outing so you have no much option we guys want to love the girl before getting married but in saudi usually the family will chose for you am not telling it is bad thing but it does not work always.
  i prefer to chose a girl on my same education level or better and one that is ready to share every thing with me.(am so romantic heheheh)
  this is my opinion.

  Rami 09 Jun 2009, 11:23 - Report

• .....

  Rami its bad enoguh someone to choose instaed of YOU, ur LIFE PARTNER! But im not here to talk what i like and dislike in SaudiArabia,,,,im here just for some months ,i enjoyed my stay here so i can say i do not care a lot about Saudi Arabia.
  
  But i care about my Saudi freinds and i feel sorry to them seeing them getting married from any stranger girls and being unhappy!
  
  Rami lets close the topic here ,,,we start to bore the people

  Crazy girl 09 Jun 2009, 01:18 - Report

• To Crazy Girl

  End of Topic....
  As requested by Crazy Girl

  Rami 09 Jun 2009, 02:59 - Report